gift from a friend…Gift from the Sea

starfish on the beach

For my birthday a new friend and kindred spirit gave me a copy of Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s book Gift from the Sea.  Though written fifty years ago I’d never heard of it before. The book is the result of  the author’s experience while spending a month alone in a cottage on the beach in Captiva Island, FL. 

I happen to love the beach and the water and I’m fond of Captiva Island so the idea of spending a month there in an old beach cottage by myself with nothing to do but read, write and sit and listen to the waves sounds wonderful to me. Of course it also sounds like a distant dream which is why the origin of this book intrigued me. I mean if I can’t do it, I might as well glean something from the heart of one who has.

I sat down to read this book, not surprisingly, after I’d spent the day at the beach last Sunday. I was hooked after reading the opening paragraph.

The beach is not the place to work; to read, write or think. I should have remembered that from other years. Too warm, too damp, too soft for any real mental discipline or sharp flights of spirit. One never learns. Hopefully, one carries down the faded straw bag, lumpy with books, clean paper, long overdue unanswered letters, freshly sharpened pencils, lists of good intentions. The books remain unread, the pencils break their points and the pads rest smooth and unblemished as the cloudless sky. No reading, no writing, no thoughts even–at least, not at first.

This is me. The bag full of books, notes I intend to write and send to distant friends, the new journal I plan to fill with all my thoughts, prayers and dreams, I carry it with me to the beach on each summer vacation with great expectations. But those expectations are rarely met.  At least not in the span of the few days I usually spend at the beach. There’s too much to “undo” before I can “do” at the beach. Too much emptying of my heart and mind that must happen before I can read those books and fill all those journal pages.  Lindbergh says it far more eloquently than I…

At first, the tired body takes over completely…Rollers on the beach, wind on the pines, the slow flapping herons across and dunes, drown out the hectic rhythms of city and suburb, time tables and schedules. One falls under their spell, relaxes, stretches out prone. One becomes, in fact, like the element on which one lies, flattened by the sea; bare, open, empty as the beach, erased by today’s tides of all yesterday’s scribblings.

How true this is for me. It always takes the few days I have to get to that empty place. Sadly, my time at the beach is too short. Before I know it, the time comes to drag that bag, which is now full of sand and seashells, back to the car and head home. But if only I could stay. What might happen with those books, those journals, what might happen in my heart and mind  if I had that next week? Perhaps I would discover…  

Some morning in the second week, the mind wakes, comes to life again. Not in a city sense – no- but beach-wise. It begins to drift, to play, to turn over in gentle careless rolls like those lazy waves on the beach. One never knows what chance treasures these easy unconscious rollers may toss up…

Treasure. That’s what I’m expecting to find as I carry my bag down to the beach. I’m looking for those treaures you find once the tide has come in and then gone out.  I suppose my problem is I’m looking for them too soon. I’m looking for them while the tide is still high. I need time for the water to recede, for the beach to be laid bare with all it’s treasures to behold.

O what I could do with a whole month alone at the beach–a month to sit with my toes in the sand, to not read but then read, to stop thinking so that I could think clearly.

My practical and realistic brain says dream on….

My contemplative heart does just that.


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